Monday, November 14, 2011

basic graciousness

this week's Sunday Times was all about courtesy and graciousness. do we really need to learn about courtesy and graciousness? is our country really so under-developed in graciousness?

this campaign is not new to boot - it has started since I was a kid.

I've learnt through personal experience that graciousness is cultivated, and not inborned. I used to be more of a thug, less patient, and quick to anger.

I distinctly remember how indignant I always felt when the lift door was held open by people close to me for others, and no one bothered to say "Thank you". I also remember how thugish I felt when I helped a lady with her pram up the stairs, only to have her give me weird looks.

Now, I remain expressionless. Haha. With time, we grow and learn. Some things just no longer bother us as they used to ;)

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